tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348070062651753968.post8073826817172571005..comments2023-08-26T05:33:51.938-04:00Comments on Cassidy's Quest: Three (Is A Magic Number)Cassidyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10765803435751308973noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348070062651753968.post-25772946816190741232013-01-24T02:29:48.236-05:002013-01-24T02:29:48.236-05:00@ Jenna: I see you and April think along the same ...@ Jenna: I see you and April think along the same lines! Hmm... the gas station *is* a gold mine, being the last stop before an interstate highway. Not sure how I'd look in coveralls though...<br /><br />@ Stace: Thank you for the advice. Your therapist sounds like mine! That's a good thing, btw. :c) <br /><br />@ Kelli: I've always had a very difficult time accepting compliments. After I came out to S, she asked me why I always made a joke whenever anyone said something nice to me. I wasn't even aware I was doing it. <br /><br />I have to constantly remind myself how young she is, because she is wise beyond her years. As one of my co-workers said today after a meeting with her, "Someday we're all going to be working for her."<br /><br />I think you're correct: I just wasn't expecting this to happen so soon. I think I've mentioned that this all started immediately after I finally cried about a month ago. I don't think that is a coincidence. <br /><br />I've made substantial progress in other areas too, which I will write about soon. I've been astonished at how calm I felt as I was taking steps I would never have dared imagine even a few short weeks ago. And none of this would be happening if I hadn't allowed those tears to come out that day though.<br /><br />Thank you all again for your kind words. My therapist told me at my last session, "You're on a rocket ship, Cass, do you realize that? I don't think you do yet. But it's right for you. I would tell you if I felt it wasn't." I guess I'm still adjusting, as Kelli noted. So hang on for the ride, folks! :c)<br /><br />Hugs to all of you!<br />CassCassidyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10765803435751308973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348070062651753968.post-47199985406589531552013-01-23T08:01:00.033-05:002013-01-23T08:01:00.033-05:00Stace is 100% right. Learn to take a compliment.
...Stace is 100% right. Learn to take a compliment. <br /><br />That being said, you are still at a point mentally where you are just not expecting this sort of thing. I got it starting about a year and a half before I went full time. You are still adjusting to yourself and are thinking "I still have a lot of changes happening" so it hasn't fully settled into your head yet. <br /><br />It will, in time it will feel second nature and right. We all reach it at a different pace.<br /><br />The good news is that it is happening early, this is a good problem to have!<br /><br />:DKelli Bennetthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13894619011949920947noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348070062651753968.post-5932675696134835032013-01-23T04:20:15.285-05:002013-01-23T04:20:15.285-05:00:)
As my therapist kept telling me when I didn...:)<br /><br />As my therapist kept telling me when I didn't believe what people were saying:<br /><br />Learn to take a compliment!<br /><br />;p (OK he told me to stop being so bloody English, so I paraphrased it to what he meant...)<br /><br />StaceStacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07907346657510908857noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348070062651753968.post-91628315099777930472013-01-23T01:25:32.570-05:002013-01-23T01:25:32.570-05:00He's got brothers!
Any of them single? You mig...He's got brothers!<br />Any of them single? You might still have pulled :-)Jennahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08410714441581467404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348070062651753968.post-17307286963283651702013-01-22T23:29:49.697-05:002013-01-22T23:29:49.697-05:00lol Isn't that always the way?!?
I might add...lol Isn't that always the way?!? <br /><br />I might add that a) it was night time, b) this area is poorly lit, and c) it's noisy, being off a busy four-lane highway. Also, I hadn't been able to shave for several days, in preparation for electrolysis (sigh). So I suspect this kind gentleman should seek out both eye *and* ear exams ASAP! :c)Cassidyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10765803435751308973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3348070062651753968.post-18525289608903078822013-01-22T23:21:39.744-05:002013-01-22T23:21:39.744-05:00Too bad he is already married! Otherwise it sounds...Too bad he is already married! Otherwise it sounds as if he would have asked you out!Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02991391285746762005noreply@blogger.com